Now I want to share with you the facts, and also my advice about something that you probably ask yourself Lots of times:
Well, first I will provide you some facts (scientific truth!) And then I will present my personal advice to you.
Relationships and the author of the most extensive analysis of
long distance relationships ever finished,”Long Distance Relationships: The Complete Guide”.
He’s is a graduate of Stanford Medical School and Purdue University’s Clinical Psychology Program and he unites his
scientific experience,interviews with hundreds of couples in
long distance relationships and his personal experience into this in depth book.
Ok, now you know who Dr. Gregory Guldner is, I will provide you the scientific truth about Dating Others Throughout an LDR.
Dr. Gregory Guldner made two research, and here are his results:
– 30 percent of couples that dated others broke up
– 27 percent of couples that did not broke up
– 70 percent of couples who didn’t talk about this issue broke up.
– 15 percent of people who outdated others survived LDR
– 48 percent of those who did not survived LDR
Ok, let me explain to you the significance of these numbers:
The Long Distance Relationship couples who outdated others, in a
Period of 6 months, 30 percent of them broke up.
From the Long Distance Relationship couples that did not obsolete
Others, in a span of 6 months, 27 percent of them awakened.
And notice this, 70 percent of couples who did not discuss this issue
In the next study:”Cross sectional study”, the relationships
That at one stage were long distance (such as the one me and you are
living now), but now are reunited (the thing you and me want
longer ) as intended, we could observe that:
Just 15% of those who outdated others survived LDR and 48 percent of those
Who did not survived LDR.
Time, like six months, it will not make to much difference for the
achievement of the Long Distance Relationship, to others.
What makes the difference here isn’t being honest and clear
using the Long Distance Partner, 70 percent of couples who didn’t talk about this issue broke up!
Now, for long periods of time, relationship others is very very danger
For the achievement of your Long Distance Relationship! Just 15% survived LDR!
However, what makes you”want” to others while you’re in your Long Distance Relationship?
Is because you prefer to feel close with someone else?
What You Have to do is to know how to”make love” at phone
Or to write erotic letters, or send sensual videos or pictures to
Now about my experience?
Do you believe that because I’m at a Long Distance Relationship I do not feel sexually attracted by other people?
But do I think about the notion of me dating others while I’m within my
Long Distance Relationships?
Allow me to tell you something. At my job There’s a man,
I do not know to describe this, but between him and me there’s such a powerful sexual chemistry.
Also a strong sexual chemistry, but I think when I made sex with that guy in my job, I guess I’d be something much more powerful than I have with my Long Distance Partner.
But do you think will make sex with that guy from my job?
First I truly adore with all my heart my Long Distance Partner, he is without any doubt that the”true love” of my life. And a relationship is a lot more than sex, and also you now that really well!
Secondly I don’t feel I have sexual insatisfaction in my Long
I do use what I”learn” from several resources which you can see in internet, and which it is possible to see in my website.
Now, with this, I’m not saying that I agree or disagree with the
Ones which produce the option of Dating Others while they’re in a Long Distance Relationship.
It is your choice, and today, you have also the numbers of the scientific study of Dr. Gregory Guldner and also my advice and my expertise.
Do not let it tear you apart!
My name is Maria Madeira, and like you, I’m at a Long Distance Relationship since 2003. Since that time, I’ve been in all phases of Long Distance Relationship.
What you’re feeling! Allow me to help YOU!